Respecting People of All Ages

We encounter many situations in our life. Everything is very real to the person who encounters such situations. What is true to one person may appear rubbish or wrong to the other. As we grow, we feel affected by the certain things happening to us. For example, "feeling loved" is a very real and genuine emotion for a young person. "Love" and "Breakup" are very important events in one's young years but this all may be stupid in the eyes of a middle aged or an old person. As we see in real life as well as in movies, fathers mostly dislike their young boy or girl admitting a relationship. Similarly, working and earning money to lead a good life is very genuine concern for a family person but a child is never concerned for such issues.

The experiences, priorities and aims belong to a certain time of your life whether it is important for you to do, it never can outdo other person's same set of things especially of different age groups.

Therefore, one should learn to respect what the other person wants to do or is doing without undermining your own set of things. Experiences in one's life are nothing but a bag full of incidents specific to the age one is passing through and the importance given to them.

If we can realise it, we all will be respecting the feelings of the our elders or younger ones. Our world will become a happier place.

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